Let’s get real about what people actually want to know when they come for a love astrology reading. Here are some of the most common relationship questions—and how your chart holds the clues:

1. Why Do I Always Attract the Same Type (or the Same Drama)?

• Look for repeated planetary patterns: Do you always date people who “trigger” your Moon sign or aspect your Venus?

• Do you have Venus square Neptune? You might idealize partners, or attract people who are unavailable, mysterious, or elusive.

• A heavy Saturn influence? You may feel relationships are “hard work” or have a history of age gaps, responsibility, or “teacher-student” themes.

Example:
Emma’s chart has Venus square Neptune and Saturn in her 7th house. She keeps attracting dreamers or commitment-phobes, and relationships often feel like a lesson in boundaries.

2. What’s My Love Language? What Makes Me Feel Truly Loved?

• Venus shows how you give and receive affection.

• The Moon reveals your deepest emotional cravings.

• The house placement of Venus and Moon (e.g., 4th house = home, 11th = friendship, 5th = romance/play) fine-tunes your needs.

If your Venus is in Taurus, gifts and physical touch may melt your heart. Moon in Gemini? Words, humor, and lively conversation keep you engaged.

3. Am I Meant for Lasting Love, or Am I a “Free Spirit”?

• Look for stable vs. freedom-loving signatures:

  • Venus/Moon in fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius), strong Saturn, or 7th house planets = long-term focus.

  • Uranus or Neptune aspects to Venus/Moon, or Venus/Moon in mutable or air signs = open to nontraditional, changeable, or “detached” love.

• Do you have Venus or the Descendant linked to Uranus? You may crave space and surprises, or find yourself drawn to unconventional relationships.

4. Why Do I Get “Stuck” in Certain Patterns or Heartbreaks?

• Check for challenging aspects:

  • Venus square Saturn: Fear of rejection, “not good enough,” or slow-to-trust.

  • Moon-Pluto: Emotional intensity, difficulty letting go, “all or nothing” feelings.

• Karmic or repeating themes are often shown by planets in the 12th house, or the lunar nodes aspecting Venus or the 7th house ruler.

Example:
Jason has Moon conjunct Pluto in Libra in the 7th house. He craves intense, transformative partnerships, but often finds himself in power struggles or breakups that take ages to recover from.

5. Who’s My Ideal Match? Where’s My Soulmate in My Chart?

• Your 7th house and its ruler describe partner “type.”

• Venus and Mars aspects show what you’re drawn to, and what you attract.

• Asteroids like Juno or Vesta add spice (Juno = committed partnership, Vesta = sacred sexuality).

• North Node aspects can point to soulmate-style meetings.

Tip: Don’t forget synastry! Overlay your chart with a partner’s to see where sparks (or challenges) fly. Venus-Mars contacts = hot attraction; Moon-Sun = cozy comfort.